Hi
I have recognised possible oppression in my husband after he has had affairs. He currently does not live with me, but his behaviour and attitude have dramatically changed. I have read alot about strongholds and legal grounds, which seem to fit my husband. There are many prayers out there for one's self, I wonder if anyone knows or has experience of any prayers to pray strongholds, legal grounds and oppression away from a person if they do not concent to it.
I am fearful for my husband as I can see what his life will become, in fact my discernment tells me he will end up comitting suicide if I do not pray to help him. He is financially ruined and has engaged in a further affair, which is keeping him 'happy' at the moment. He will not face himself and has denounced God with blasphomy. His heart is so hard and closed I cannot reason with him, which is just not usual for my husband.
If anyone can advise I would be grateful
Thanks
Nikki

Dear Nikki,

Our hearts and prayers go out to you and pray that you will retain your personal integrity amidst the excruciating pain of being faced with such a dilemma. I sense that you have been faithful in honoring your sacred marriage covenant.

From your powerful position it is clear that you see the undertones and tragic position which your unfaithful husband has, by his lustful desires and actions, has chosen to serve the adversary. Unfortunately, he appears to have chosen to follow a downward spiral of deep transgression which may end in the very scenario which you see. Sin blinds the hearts and mind of the transgressor and he, of all people, fails to see the catastrophic path which he has chosen. Wickedness never was happiness.

He, in his present course of action, is extremely insensitive to the pain and suffering he has caused especially you and others to face. Repentance is not now on his radar and may never be. This much I can promise you that if you trust in the Lord with all your heart and maintain your personal integrity and honor and fidelity, you will find in the end that things will work out according to your faith and commitment to God. May God bless you Nikki.

Regards,
RT